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Mengapa Harus Kecewa

Assalamualaikum Dan Salam Sejahtera,  (aku suka bahan email ni, jadi aku abadi kan ia kat web aku) Kita seringkali bertanya dan mempertikaikan apa yang terjadi ke atas diri kita selama ini. Kita tidak sedar dan redha bahawa semua yang berlaku adalah ketentuan dan kehendak Allah jua... SOALAN LAZIM MANUSIA BILA KECEWA YA ALLAH? KENAPA SEMUA INI TERJADI PADA AKU? "Boleh jadi kamu membenci sesuatu padahal ia amat baik bagimu, dan boleh jadi pula kamu menyukai sesuatu, padahal ia amat buruk bagimu, Allah mengetahui sedang kamu tidak mengetahui." -Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 216 YA ALLAH? KENAPA BERAT SANGAT UJIAN INI? "Allah tidak membebani seseorang itu melainkan sesuai dengan Kesanggupannya." -Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 286 YA ALLAH? TERASA KEHIDUPAN INI SUDAH TIADA MAKNANYA LAGI. "Janganlah kamu bersikap lemah, dan janganlah pula kamu bersedih hati, padahal kamulah orang-orang yang paling tinggi darjatnya, jika kamu orang-orang yang beriman." - Surah Al-Imran ayat 139 "... ..dan janganlah kamu berputus asa dari rahmat Allah. Sesungguhnya tiada berputus asa dari rahmat Allah melainkan kaum yang kafir." -Surah Yusuf ayat 12 YA ALLAH? BAGAIMANA HARUS AKU MENGHADAPI SEGALANYA INI? "Dan mintalah pertolongan (kepada Allah) dengan jalan sabar dan mengerjakan sembahyang; dan sesungguhnya sembahyang itu amatlah berat kecuali kepada orang-orang yang khusyuk" -Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 45 YA ALLAH? APA YANG AKU DAPAT DARIPADA SEMUA INI? "Sesungguhnya Allah telah membeli dari orang-orang mu'min, diri, harta mereka dengan memberikan syurga untuk mereka... .. -Surah At-Taubah ayat 111 YA ALLAH? KEPADA SIAPA UNTUK AKU BERHARAP? "Cukuplah ! Allah bagiku, tidak ada Tuhan selain drNya. Hanya kepadaNya aku bertawakkal." -Surah At-Taubah ayat 129 YA ALLAH? BERIMANKAH AKU? "Apakah manusia itu mengira bahawa mereka dibiarkan saja mengatakan; "Kami telah beriman," sedangkan mereka tidak diuji? Dan sesungguhnya kami telah menguji orang-orang yang sebelum mereka, maka sesungguhnya Allah mengetahui orang-orang yang benar dan sesungguhnya Dia mengetahui orang-orang yang dusta.? -Surah Al-Ankabut ayat 2-3 Lumrah Alam

"Kadangkala Alam menyembunyikan matahari..
maka didatangkan petir dan kilat..
ada yang menangis dan tertanya-tanya,
kemanakah hilangnya sinar..
Rupa-rupanya.. Alam nak menghadiahkan indahnya pelangi..

Perpatah

"Jika anda mahu membuat sesuatu, anda akan cari jalan. Jika anda tidak mahu membuat sesuatu, anda akan cari alasan. "- Peribahasa Arab
" Ilmu pengetahuan pada masa muda akan membuat orang menjadi bijaksana pada hari tua."


"Jangan lupa untuk selalu memberikan penghargaan yang sesuai kepada mereka yang berprestasi, supaya prestasi mereka tetap dipertahankan dan mereka akan selalu setia kepada anda. "- Peribahasa Arab

Sumber: http://www.freewebs.com/farofeld05/

Seven Brilliant Quotes

Sumber: http://www.stumbleupon.com/su/1OSABk/cl.jroo.me/z3/c/h/y/d/a.aaa-Brilliant-quotes.jpg/

Pemimpin Yang Berjaya

21 Tips

Daripada email. Sesuatu yang baik untuk kita amalkan.


ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, t heir conversational skills will be as important as any other.

THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.

FOUR. When you say, 'I love you,' mean it.

FIVE. When you say, 'I'm sorry,' look the person in the eye.

SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.

SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.

EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much.

NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.

TEN.. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.

ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives.

TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.

THIRTEEN! .. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, 'Why do you want to know?'

FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.

FIFTEEN. Say 'bless you' when you hear someone sneeze.

SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.

SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.

EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

NINETEEN. W hen you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.

TWENTY- ONE. ;Spend some time alone.

Perubahan? Bangkit Melakukan Perubahan?

Kebelakangan ini, hangat diperkatakan tentang perubahan. Mari kita sama-sama hayati apa yang diperkatakan oleh tokoh-tokoh berikut mengenai berubah dan perubahan.

"Unless you are prepared to give up something valuable you will never be able to truly change at all, because you'll be forever in the control of things you can't give up."
Andy Law
Creative Company

"Only the wisest and stupidest of men never change."
Confucius

"One key to successful leadership is continuous personal change. Personal change is a reflection of our inner growth and empowerment."
Robert E. Quinn

"Change is hard because people overestimate the value of what they have and underestimate the value of what they may gain by giving that up."
James Belasco and Ralph Stayer
Flight of the Buffalo (1994)

"There is nothing more difficult to take in hand, more perilous to conduct, or more uncertain in its success, than to take the lead in the introduction of a new order of things."
Niccolo Machiavelli
The Prince (1532)

"Whosoever desires constant success must change his conduct with the times."
Niccolo Machiavelli

"People don't resist change. They resist being changed!"
Peter Senge

"The nature and structure of belief systems is important from the perspective of an informational theorist because beliefs are thought to provide the cognitive foundation of an attitude. In order to change an attitude, then, it is presumably necessary to modify the information on which that attitude rests. It is generally necessary, therefore, to change a person's beliefs, eliminate old beliefs or introduce new beliefs."
Richard Petty and John Cacioppo
Attitudes & Persuasion

"All is connected ... no one thing can change by itself."
Paul Hawken
"Natural Capitalism, Yoga Journal October 1994

"Your success in life isn't based on your ability to simply change. It is based on your ability to change faster than your competition, customers and business."
Mark Sanborn

"When a mature and able manager feels bored, he should seriously consider changing jobs, changing companies or simply retiring. It is not fair to anyone for half a leader to hold a full-time leadership job."
James L. Hayes

"Change has a bad reputation in our society. But it isn't all bad not by any means. In fact, change is necessary in life to keep us moving ... to keep us growing ... to keep us interested . ... Imagine life without change. It would be static ... boring ... dull."
Dr. Dennis O'Grady
in Bottom Line - Personal

"Everybody has accepted by now that change is unavoidable. But that still implies that change is like death and taxes it should be postponed as long as possible and no change would be vastly preferable. But in a period of upheaval, such as the one we are living in, change is the norm."
Peter Drucker
Management Challenges for the 21st Century (1999)

"Culture does not change because we desire to change it. Culture changes when the organization is transformed; the culture reflects the realities of people working together every day."
Frances Hesselbein
The Key to Cultural Transformation, Leader to Leader (Spring 1999)

"It is a bad plan that admits of no modification."
Publilius Syrus
First Century BC

"The most successful businessman is the man who holds onto the old just as long as it is good, and grabs the new just as soon as it is better."
Robert P. Vanderpoel

"Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, concerned citizens can change the world. Indeed it is the only thing that ever has."
Margaret Mead

"I'll go anywhere as long as it's forward."
David Livingstone

"Change is the law of life and those who look only to the past or present are certain to miss the future."
John F. Kennedy

"Ten years ago, Peter Senge introduced the idea of the 'learning organization' Now he says that for big companies to change, we need to stop thinking like mechanics and to start acting like gardeners."
Alan M. Webber
Learning for a Change

"Company cultures are like country cultures. Never try to change one. Try, instead, to work with what you've got. "
Peter Drucker

"Everything is in a process of change, nothing endures; we do not seek permanence."
Masatoshi Naito

"If you want to make enemies, try to change something."
Woodrow Wilson

Sumber: http://www.leadershipnow.com/changequotes.html

Inspiration

You have to know a lot to know how little you know.

You can't do things differently until you see things differently.

Nothing is useless. Even a spoil clock shows the right time twice everyday.

Financial mastery is spending less than you earn and investing the difference.

Stop believing that one person's action don't matter.

If you have a book, you are not alone.

The hero is an ordinary person with an extraordinary level of comitment.

Your attitude determines your altitude.

Minds are like parachutes - they only function when they are open.

There is no limit to the good you can do in this world, if you don't care who gets the credit.

Even you are on the right track, you will get run over if you just sit there!.

Quality is not always doing thing better - it's doing things differently.

What grows is what gets watered.

Memories tie you to your past. Imagination points you to the future.

What superior people seek is within themselves. What small people seek is in others.

Success begins when you begin to look for the needle in the haystack, not just believing it's there.

While you are waiting, you are also fading.

I don't care how much you know until I know how much you care.

Those who only do what they are told are seldom told to do anything.

The best thing you can spend on your children is time.

Know what to do. Do what you know.

A man is not finished when he is defeated. He is finished when he quits.

Gratitude springs from remembering the ones who helped you, not the ones you helped.

Ideas cost nothing to produce, and they often produce millions!.

When you argue with your inferiors, you convince them only one thing: they are as clever as you are.

Don't let yesterday take up too much of today.

The ony failure is the failure to keep trying.

The tragedys of life is not that it ends so soon, but that we wait so long to begin it!.

In a quarrel, truth is always lost.

A smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.

Voters don't decide issues; they decide who will decide issues!.

Constantly choosing the lesser of two evils is still choosing evil.

Don't think about who you have been. Who have you decide to become.

Ideas don't turn up. You must seek them.

Those who don't read good books have no advantage over those who can't.

If you play with cats, be prepared to be scratched.

It is the busiest person who have time to spare.

If you are stand up for your goverment, you must be able to stand up to your goverment.

If you spend money when you still have debts, you are spending other people's money.

There's no luck like pluck. Winners plough deep while others sleep.

You can have a better job by doing a better job!.

Even God doesn't judge others untill their lives are over. Why sould we?

When a man opens the car door for his wife, it's either a new car or a new wife!.

Be a great parent. Catch your child doing 'good'!.

A good day's work begins with a good night's rest.


Kebanyakan mutiara-mutiara kata ini tidak dikenalpasti siapa pemulanya.
Terima kasih ke atas mereka semua.

Small or Big??? Intelligent or Genius???

Small Minds Discuss Persons,
Big Minds Discuss Events,
Intelligent Minds Discuss Ideas,
But Genius Acts In Silence.

Apa maknanya?

Adakah cukup dengan mempunyai pengalaman yang banyak?
Tidak!. Yang menjadikan ianya lebih bernilai ialah bagaimana pengalaman itu memberi makna kepada kita.



Adakah cukup dengan mempunyai ilmu yang banyak?
Tidak!. Yang menjadikan ianya lebih bermakna ialah bagaimana kita menggunakan (mengaplikasikan) ilmu yang kita ada itu.

Siapa kita?

"Barangsiapa menempatkan dirinya di tempat yang menimbulkan prasangka, maka janganlah menyesal kalau orang menyangka buruk padanya". - Saidina Umar R.A.

"Seandainya kita tidak menjadi garam yang dapat menahan daging daripada busuk, janganlah kita menjadi langau yang membusukkan daging".




"Sesungguhnya hati orang yang bodoh itu ada di mulutnya, tetapi hati orang yang bijaksana itu ada di hatinya".

Kegagalan Adalah Jalan Kejayaan

Kegagalan bukan bererti anda gagal
Tetapi anda belum berjaya.
Kegagalan bukan bererti anda tidak mencapai apa-apa
Tetapi anda sudah mempelajari sesuatu.
Kegagalan bukan bererti anda tidak akan berjaya
Tetapi memerlukankan kesabaran.
Kegagalan bukan bererti anda sudah berakhir
Tetapi anda masih memiliki peluang untuk memulainya kembali,
dan berusaha mencari sesuatu yang baru.
Kegagalan bukan bererti Tuhan sudah meninggalkan anda.
Tetapi Dia mempunyai rencana yang lebih baik.
Jadi benar, bahawa kegagalan tidak akan pernah berakhir!

(Dr. Robert Schuller)

Get It Now!

GET IT NOW OR NEVER!

Rebutlah peluang ketika ada.

Mutiara Kata 2

4 perkara yang tidak akan kembali:

• Kata-kata yang diucapkan
• Anak panah yang terluncur
• Masa yang berlalu
• Peluang yang diabaikan

(Pepatah Arab)


The beginning is the most important part of the work
Permulaan adalah bahagian yang paling penting dalam sesuatu usaha

(Plato (428 - 384 SM)

Mutiara Kata 1

Memulakan
sesuatu itu
adalah hebat
tetapi
menyelesaikannya
adalah lebih hebat.

H.W. Longfellow (1807-1882)


Ilmu
lebih baik
daripada harta
Harta
berkurang
apabila digunakan
ilmu
bertambah
apabila digunakan.

Ali bin Abi Talib (600 - 661 M)


Tiap-tiap
bertambah ilmuku
akan bertambah pula
keinsafan bahawa
terlalu banyak
yang aku
tidak tahu.

Imam Syafie (767 - 820M)

Epilog Kegigihan

Di setiap air yang surut
Di situ ada pasangnya

Di setiap senja yang berlalu
Di situ suria akan menjelma

Di setiap cita-cita yang berbunga
Di situ mesti ada usaha